Paul LaVack, Empowerment Mentor 336.508.6330
Showing posts with label conflict coaching. Show all posts
Showing posts with label conflict coaching. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Why and When to Call




Why do I need to call a Professional Facilitator?

When members view meetings as being unproductive and getting in the way of their work instead of helpful and productive, a facilitator may be helpful. There can be times when a few individuals "take over meetings" for better or for worse. Not everyone is being heard from and valuable input may be getting lost. A sensitive subject may lead to strong feelings being expressed unprofessionally with employees attacking each other rather than the problem. People fall into habits meeting regularly over time. The joker does her thing, the whiner does his thing, Mr. Grumpy is the same ole grumpy. Those ceiling tile counters continue to quietly sit there with a blank stare adding nothing. The dominator tries to control things. The bottom line is things are not getting accomplished.

When do I need to call a Professional Facilitator?

If any or all of the above are slowing down your organization, it is likely also costing money in lost time and productivity. How long can you afford "business as usual?"         

Friday, June 14, 2013

No Re-do's

I was watching a little Science Fiction lately (I'll pass on the Honey Bobo) and all the bad things that happened in the two shows were reversed by cool time travel theatrics. I don't think we have that kind of technology here in the real world. We don't have the option of redo's. Once the wrong thing has been said, poor decision acted on or something left undone, that's it. We are left with the aftermath. The best thing we can do for the future we want is is be present and mindful of our words and deeds today.


When it is too late, Dr. Johan Galtung has a saying, "I wish it were undone." Recognizing "the wrong" is a big step in the right direction.

Have a good weekend all!

-Paul